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Stephen Ministers make a long-term commitment to walk alongside another who is going through a transition in their life such as divorce, loss of a loved one, depression, job loss, struggling with their faith, childbirth, terminal illness, surgery, legal problems and other difficulties for as long as needed.
STEPHEN MINISTRY IS . . .
- A lay, caring ministry in which one person reaches out to another in time of need.
- An ongoing helping relationship--people who need help, get help.
- A meaningful way for our congregation to more fully use our talents in sharing one another's burdens and joys.
A STEPHEN MINISTER IS . . .
- A caring Christian--desiring to offer his/her support to others in time of need.
- A sharing Christian--bringing who s/he is to each helping relationship, as a partner in another's life experiences.
- A trained Christian--having developed his/her helping skills through intensive coursework.
- A dedicated Christian--commissioned by our congregation to confidential, in-depth caring.
A STEPHEN MINISTER IS NOT . . .
- A professional counselor, psychologist, or therapist.
- A social worker providing lots of physical services.
- An expert in law, finance, church doctrine, etc.
- A brief, superficial visitor, "touching base" with people now and then.
WHAT IS THE STEPHEN MINISTRY?
- It is a one-to-one ministry by trained, caring parishioners.
- It is a long term helping relationship focusing on the unique needs of each person.
- It is a commitment to caring and supporting one another, to build a Christ-centered, sharing community.
- It is a response to Christ's instruction . . . "to love one another as I have loved you."
- It is a religious and educational system of training and organization, which is already working in many congregations throughout the country.
- It is a ministry named after St. Stephen, the first deacon in the early church, commissioned by the apostles to care for the community's needs.
WHO IS A STEPHEN MINISTER?
- A lay person, who through training will learn skills and develop his/her gifts for bringing Christ's healing love to people who are lonely, grieving, strangers, new parents, ill, or experiencing other stresses in life.
- A caring and sharing person who reaches out a supporting hand to the spiritual, social, and emotional needs of our community.
WHAT KINDS OF NEEDS DOES STEPHEN MINISTRY ADDRESS?
- People who are hospitalized
- People who are grieving the loss of a loved one
- People who are lonely
- People who are depressed
- People who are separated or in the process of divorce
- People who are shut in
- People experiencing the birth of a child
- People who are dying, as well as the families of those who are terminally ill
- People experiencing loss of job, or financial setbacks
- People and families of those who are in trouble with the law
- People who are new to our parish
- People who are inactive members of our parish
- People who are struggling with their faith with God
HOW DOES STEPHEN MINISTRY WORK AT DAVIS COMMUNITY CHURCH?
- A Stephen Ministry training program prepares interested men and women to become Stephen Ministers, equipping them to care for the many needs in our congregation.
- Their 50 hours of training includes topics such as:
- feelings
- listening
- assertiveness training
- confidentiality
- crisis theory and intervention
- telecare
- use of prayer and the Bible
- being professional
- the "small step" approach
- other specialized "needs" topics on grief, divorce, depression, older persons, stress, etc.
- Each Stephen Minister works in continual consultation with our pastoral staff and receive ongoing education in the helping ministry.
If you are interested in serving as a Stephen Minister, establishing a relationship with a Stephen Minister, or simply want more information about DCC's Stephen Ministry; please call Marian Derby, Lisa Yamauchi, JoAnn Deil, Mary Lynn Tobin, or the church office at 530-753-2894.
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